Females, for some reason, always seem to have issues when it comes to maintianing a healthy relationship with the same sex. No I do not mean Lesbians Boys.. lets keep it clean! thanks! I mean friendships. Females, in my opinion, tend to be very catty, emotional, easily manipulated, and my favorite JEALOUS. So here is a check list in which you can use to determine.. Is she a true friend.. Or is this b*tch trying to poison my Rum & Coke.. lol Enjoy!
You Know She's A True Friend When..
- No matter what is going on in her world.. she always has that 5 min. call during her lunch break with your name on it!
- She remembers the small things like your birthday, or the day you broke up with your first love.
- When your sick, shes not worried about catching your cold. Instead she hops right in the bed with tissues.. soup.. and the latest hopeless romantic DVD rental.
- If your swimming in the pity pool, she's always going to be the first to remind you that it can always be worse.. and that maybe you should be dwelling on what you're grateful for.
- Lastly, no matter what issues the friendship faces... you always find a way to talk it out. Some things just arent worth losing a friend over. Example: Boys
You Know She's Not A True Friend When...
- Anytime you call her to speak about something thats important to you, the convo quickly becomes about her.
- If every comment is.. "I dont like that" or " You should do this" shes not trying to look out for your best interest.. shes trying to control what she dont have.
- If she tends to call you to do her dirty work, shes not looking for her homegirl to help her out, shes looking for someone to blame when the shit hits the fan.
- Lastly, if a boy gets involved in the friendship.. there wasnt really ever a friendship. There is no room for a boyfriend when it comes to bff's. Keep the 2 seperate. Believe me.
This Check List was more on the serious tip. But it's the truth. I dont know how many friends I have lost throughout the years over stupidity. It's just not right.
Keep the lines of communication open, and you should be good. =)
3 comments:
Gotta agree on this. But sometimes u do gotta let go of shyt. Tired of all the he said she said. A lot of friends no a days are "frienemies" do 101 things behind ur back ( like set up meeting wit one of ur girls ex's for example, or talk shyt about someone u consider" ur bff" .. Yes ladies we're caddy and emotional and the whole 9 yards, but that's just the way it is. If friends would just be friends and not have a hidden motive as to why their ur friends then life would be a great place. And if girls didn't have such bad self esteem issues and whatnot, maybe they wouldn't risk their friendship by letting ur girls dude tell u sweet nothings in ur ear just so u can feel better about urself. Now a days, bff,friend, my homegirl, etc... R words that r used very losely like the word I love u which is another issue. Lol. Sorry for writing a book here tiffy. But at the end of the day all u got is urself and that's all! I've managed to finally learn that shyt...
Xoxo
I know Ari.. I've come to realize that I have me and only me. Efff it though... LOL I'm pretty freaking awesome! LOL
I REALLY LIKE THIS APPROACH ON THE CHECK LIST . I WROTE A CHECK LIST AS WELL ON FRIENDS ON MY BLOG. BUT YOURS IS SO DIFFERENT . YOU SHOULD READ MINES AND LEAVE A COMMENT. ITS ON DEC. 3RD " A BEST FRIEND CAN BE YOUR BIGGEST HATER". I THINK YOU WILL FIND IT VERY ENTERTAINING. LOL.
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