Stalker Alert

Ugh.. I am so tired of dating psychos.. lol
Here's a funny little story for you guys...

So about a few days ago I went on a date with this guy I have known for a while now. He was always a good friend.. and a sweetheart.. so I figured "whats the harm?" I really should have re-thought that statement before hand.

The date went well, as I knew it would. We ended the night with a small peck and a "I'll call you." At that moment I didn't realize how literal he was when he said he would call. About 30 mins later I received my first call.

Call #1
Stalker: "Hey I just wanted to make sure you were able to open you door and get into your house ok"

Me: :: raised eyebrow:: "Umm.. yea.. i got in just fine.. thanks for calling.."

Stalker: "Wait.. before you go.. can I ask you a serious ?"

Me: " Sure.. just make it quick.. I want to jump into the shower"

Stalker: "Well, do you think you could fall in love with a guy like me? I mean.. I know its the first date.. but if this is how it feels to be with you.. then the sex should be good too"

Me: "Are you fucking kidding me? I think that this convo is over now.. Please do not call me anymore you fucking weirdo.."

:: CLICK ::

Now, he has still called me since that date about twice a day. I also have about 15 messages saved with him professing his love.. blah blah blah..

Can someone please explain to me why guys have to take it there? I know this isn't a typical move.. so is something wrong with homie or is he just that comfortable with me? I dont know this answer, nor do I care to find out. All I know is that he needs to re evaluate his approach.

Where are all the nice normal boys? lol I'm just saying! Can't a girl get normal these days.. I dont want a nut job.. a bad boy.. a stalker nor a punk.. Just someone who is going to think I'm amazing. Even when the makeup is smeared.. and the hair isn't looking too hott. lol

Weekly Quotes =)

The evil of the world is made possible by nothing but the sanction you give it.

--Ayn Rand


It is easier to get forgiveness than to get permission.

The other woman... friend or enemy?

I have come face to face with this type of uncomfortable situation. Dealing with the "other woman" is never an easy task, but someone has to do it.

In my past relationship, infidelities played a major role. Whether it be a drunken night, an ex girl friend, or an old high school fling, I was always left to play investigator. Many a night I would sit and think to myself.. "Is this stress worth it?"

I've come to learn now that the stress is never worth it. As women, we want to attack the other female. As though there is some type of unwritten code which she's broken. Hardly ever do we retaliate toward the individual, who amongst all, is the person who owes you explanations as well as honesty.

This reality played in my mind, and I got to thinking. Is the other woman my enemy after all? Did she save me? Should I be thanking her instead of slashing her tires.. and writing her threatening emails? The answer came to me as clear as day.

Men will go as far as you allow them. I am, in no way, stating that I deserved each discretion on his behalf. I am stating that maybe this "other woman" did me a favor. If she believes she has what it takes to change him, god bless her. In reality, we all know how her story will end.
Much like mine.
She will be fighting the same battle, inevitably losing the war.

The Other Woman.. My Very Silly Friend.. =)