Sunday, October 31, 2010

Love yourself.

On off days, the mirror has been my worst enemy. There is no greater task than facing yourself. After all, we know ourselves the best and there is no hiding the truth. We may be able to pass a smile off to a friend but once you catch your image reflecting back towards you, the joke will ultimately be on you.

I hate to seem "depressed" as many would call it, but I find it a tad bit harder to look deeply at myself. Maybe I am just running from a truth that I am not ready to face. I can possibly have so many worries and concerns in my own life that I don't allow myself to take the time to look a little deeper. None the less, I have made a conscious decision to make the time to get to know myself again.

There is no greater friendship than the one you maintain with yourself. Many individuals allow life to take over and become so consumed with insignificance, that they ultimately lose the most important thing. They lose themselves.

I love myself enough to know that I matter. Other's may not share that same luxury.
Therefore, to whom ever can relate, be sure to make time for yourself. Try and find what inspired you once before. Go back to old passions, pursue them. Look at old pictures, go back to the memories which remind you of you. Search high and low. Eventually, the person that you are today will begin to make sense. You will start to nourish yourself, love yourself, and value your worth.

There is no greater love than the love for ones self. Many lose pieces of themselves throughout their journey in life. A loss is always a tragedy, but your tragedies can soon become your rebirth. Perseverance, determination and most importantly, patience will guide you to the real you.


" The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely"

Stupid is as stupid does.

I have become less patient these days. For whatever reason, I have very low tolerence for stupidity. I'm sure many can relate to me when I say that we are all surrounded by some type of stupidity. I have just chosen to eliminate the excess and have filled that enormous gap with positivity.

I am not claiming to be the brightest bulb. I too, on many occasions, have been known to pull the "Blondie card." I am not particularly proud, but I am aware.

I have come up with a plan to put an end to the none- sense in which many people are creating. ( beware, for my plans tend to offend many).

I say that we start calling people out on their "special" moments.

For example: Have a friend who never understands your jokes? Aside from the fact that maybe you're just not funny, let them know that they need to get their head out of the clouds.

If you know someone who can never follow directions. Ask them, daringly, if they have ever ridden the special yellow buses to school at one point in time. These are not offensive questions. Just genuine concerns.

We need to make these individuals aware of their time consuming tendencies. If we fail at awareness, then we fail entirely and we will be the ones to suffer.

I am done with the 20 min calls on how to find my house. Especially if they have been here 20 times. I am done trying to explain my humor and I am SO DONE wasting my precious time participating in ridiculous banter.

Get a clue people. Get some Knowledge.

"Stupidity is a killer. Do not allow yourself to fall victim"